John Flaherty Jr's Obituary
Captain John P Flaherty, Jr., passed away on May 31, 2025, in Strongsville, Ohio. A devoted husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and decorated officer of the United States Coast Guard, he leaves behind a legacy of service, leadership, and unwavering dedication to his country and family.
Born on May 14, 1934, in Astoria, New York, John began his remarkable journey with the Coast Guard by enlisting as a seaman recruit. Recognizing his potential early on, he took the entrance exam for the United States Coast Guard Academy and was appointed just nine months after joining. He graduated with a bachelor’s degree in 1957 and embarked on a distinguished career that spanned decades and oceans.
Throughout his service, Captain Flaherty commanded several Coast Guard cutters including the Juniper, Resolute, Boutwell, and Polar Star. His leadership extended beyond the sea to critical shoreside assignments such as LORAN Station Talamupulan in the Philippines and the Coast Guard Icebreaker Support Facility. He also held various staff positions at Coast Guard Headquarters and the Pentagon. His final duty station brought him full circle—returning to the U.S. Coast Guard Academy as Assistant Superintendent and retired in 1987.
His exemplary service was recognized with numerous awards: three Coast Guard Commendation Medals, a Coast Guard Letter of Commendation, a Coast Guard Unit Commendation Ribbon, the National Defense Medal, Arctic and Antarctic Service Medals, the Restricted Duty Ribbon, and the Sea Service Ribbon.
John’s commitment to education paralleled his military career. He earned a master’s degree in International Affairs from George Washington University in 1970 while simultaneously attending the U.S. Naval War College. Later in life, he pursued further academic achievement by earning an MBA from the University of Connecticut in 1989. Utilizing his MBA, his civilian career included being the Administrator at Mitchell College for several years and the Treasurer of the Town of Waterford in Connecticut.
Beyond his professional accomplishments, John was deeply devoted to his family. He is survived by his beloved wife Ruth Ann Flaherty; their children John (Brenda), Rich, Connie, and Jean (Dan); grandchildren Jessica (Kenny), JP, Josh, James (Sharon), Nina (Chris), Bekah (Chael), Amber (Ryan), Tanya (Evan), Zack (Danielle), and Nick (Brigid); as well as nineteen great-grandchildren—with two more expected soon.
He is also survived by two brothers Joseph (Amelia) and Edward (Donna). He was preceded in death by his parents John P. Flaherty Sr. and Marie Flaherty; and sisters Corrine Guilfoyle and Marie Flaherty.
Captain Flaherty’s life was one of purpose—marked by courage at sea and compassion at home. His memory will live on through those who knew him best and loved him most.
May his memory bring comfort to all who were touched by his life of honor and service.
A memorial service will be held at the United States Coast Guard Academy later this summer. In lieu of flowers, a donation can be made to the National Federation of the Blind at nfb.org/donate.
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